feat(menu): MatMenuItem should have `disabledInteractive` input like MatButton

[jermowery]

Feature Description

MatMenuItem should support a disabledInteractive input, just like MatButton does: https://material.angular.dev/components/button/api#components

Use Case

Disabling a button but leaving it interactive for the same use cases as a generic MatButton

[jermowery]

Seems like Jetski should be able to do this, let's give it a shot...